How Living Fearless Transformed My Coaching Business This Year and Could Change Your Business As Well I read this book 3-4 times this year and it is filled with simple and deep truths that have set my heart free. — 10 Quotes from Jamie Winship 1) “God never comes to you in a formula, and he never will. You know why? He respects and loves you too much to talk to you that way. He’s creative in how he talks. He’s mysterious.”2) “The mystery of you. Trust me, you do not know yourself. If you did,...
5 days ago • 1 min read
Yesterday, I found out a good friend lost his job. Then hearing from another friend—overwhelmed by the crushing weight of a payroll deadline to ensure his team members were paid. In that tension, I’m reminded of a deeper truth: We can practice the presence of deep contentment, no matter our current circumstances. Simple, but hard. (Journal prompts below.) I’m grateful for every single one of you. For every interaction. For reading my ramblings. For listening to the podcast. For the coaching...
16 days ago • 1 min read
Where Is God When You Have a $90,000 Payroll to Make? Recently, a client said to me, “I want to know where God is when I have a $90,000 payroll due this week. Sometimes it feels like He doesn’t really care about my business.” If you’re honest, have you felt that too? Where is God when the pressure builds? Where is He when you enter a hard season, or when leadership feels like a lonely grind? This is the real work I do with the men I serve — not the church answer, not the Sunday-school...
17 days ago • 2 min read
Most leaders don’t have a strategy problem.They have an identity problem—and it’s costing them their marriage, their team, and their peace.Enter one of the most transformative years of my life.It started when I listened to Jamie Winship’s four-hour Identity Camp teaching.Something inside me knew—my life would never be the same. Then I dove into Living Fearless.Then, into more than 100 hours of training, podcast teachings, and direct coaching with Jamie & Donna Winship through Identity...
22 days ago • 1 min read
Lessons from our dance coach that will transform your life, marriage, and business. We were learning about the four points of connection in dancing. Then she made this statement. “Your confidence to lead will give her the trust to follow.”Brother, Your wife desires safety, security, and strength from the inside out.
22 days ago • 1 min read
The real reason your wife is disconnected from you. It’s not a mystery. You stopped caring. Your words hold no weight. You stopped pursuing with intention. For example: — You stopped caring about your physical well-being. — You have failed on your words one too many times and she no longer trusts you. — She wants to be romanced, and your dates rarely happen, and if they do they are half-hearted. What to do instead: Get physically active again and stay committed to life as fitness. It becomes...
22 days ago • 1 min read
A decade ago, we welcomed our fourth girl into the world and I was 20lbs overweight. Although I did CrossFit 3-5x week, ran a marathon, and did many triathlons in that season, but my nutrition was trash. It caught up with me when I saw myself in the mirror and realized I did not look like the man I wanted to be. Now at 45, having lost my dad a little over two years ago to poor health, I think often about the life I want when I grandchildren. So when I drove past Any Lab Test earlier this...
22 days ago • 1 min read
In a world dominated by AI, shortcuts, and quick-fix formulas, the clearest path to winning in business has never changed.But very few will choose it.Because this path requires deeper values.Unshakeable convictions.And leadership grounded in love.I was reminded of this in a deep coaching conversation with one of the business owners I serve.He has become relentless about elevating the guest experience.Why? Because he’s building a lighthouse culture in his community—one that shines with...
22 days ago • 1 min read
Last week in Costa Rica, I was having deep conversations with men about testosterone, performance, and marital intimacy. I asked inside my private community about others' experiences and how it affects: Drive.Desire.Mental health.Intimacy in marriage. I could not figure out why I was 80lbs overweight, doing all the right things, and not losing weight. “I thought I had weight and marital problems… turns out I had a testosterone problem.” I met recently with high high-achieving business owner,...
28 days ago • 2 min read