ALL MARITAL CONFLICTS ARE ROOTED IN FEAR, AND FEAR ORIGINATES FROM A FALSE VIEW OF OURSELVES, OUR SPOUSE, AND GOD.
TWO DECADES OF BATTLE-TESTED, EVIDENCE-BASED WORK THAT TRANSFORMS CONFLICT INTO CONNECTION.
ONE PRIVATE SESSION IS ENOUGH TO SEE THE PATTERN — AND TO START LEADING YOUR MARRIAGE THE WAY YOU LEAD EVERYTHING ELSE.
High PerforMance Marriage Coaching
$347
A single session to see where things actually stand, and what to do next.
- A clear-eyed audit of where your marriage stands today
- Language to name — and start closing — the intimacy gap
- Direct feedback on one action you can take this week
- An invitation to go deeper, if it’s right for you
As a former MLB pitcher for the Texas Rangers, I like to think of about it in terms of baseball. A team is only as good as the team’s leader. Put Lantz on your team and let him lead you.’
Shawn Tolleson
CEO
Coaching helped me see what I couldn’t see. it’s not a lack of ability, it’s unprocessed experiences, misaligned identity, or internal pressure I never addressed.
Shelton Williams
CEO
I needed someone to talk to about leading my wife in this next season of marriage and intimacy,
I made great progress through our time and work together.
Seth Buechley
CEO
Who This is For
This is for the high-performing man winning at work and losing ground at home.
You’re disciplined. You’re driven. Your team respects you.
But at home, something’s off. Your wife feels distant. The bedroom’s gone quiet. You’re at the table, but you’re not really there.
You’ve tried harder. You’ve tried being nicer. Neither worked — because the problem was never effort. It’s identity.
WHERE THIS SHOWS UP
Sex & intimacy · Conflict & resentment · Affairs · Pornography · Emotional distance · Divorce risk · Work vs. marriage · Fatherhood · High-stakes business decisions · Team & culture
High Performance Marriage Scan
The Podcast
Coaching conversations + guest interviews with leaders who are doing the deeper work of identity, intimacy, and impact.
LISTEN TO PODCASTAbout Lantz
I am a high-performance marriage coach for men. Training for more aliveness, connection, and sex as God designed for marriage.
I coach high-performing men into deeper marriages — the kind of aliveness, connection, and intimacy God designed marriage to have.
I’m a PCC-credentialed coach with 20+ years of experience, trained as a Marriage and Family Therapist, and a former executive pastor.
I’ve sat across from enough driven men to see the pattern clearly: business gets your best energy. Marriage gets what’s left.
The fix isn’t trying harder. It’s recovering your true identity — because when that’s in place, deeper intimacy and greater impact follow.
I help men break the “nice guy / performer” cycle and start leading their marriage with presence, courage, and passion.
Keeps me grounded in my God-given identity, focused on building a healthy team, and having a dynamic marriage.
Billy Blackburn
Blackburn Plumbing | Owner
Truly unique – he bridges faith, work, family, and marriage in a way I haven’t experienced before.
Dave DJ Johnson
National Christian Foundation | Former CFO
Lantz has been my executive coach for over four years. He brings depth to my team and personal leadership.
Hunter Clinton
Chick-fil-A Owner/Operator